Bhaiduj, also known as Bhai Dooj or Bhaiya Dooj, is a significant festival in India that celebrates the bond between brothers and sisters.
It takes place in the month of Kartika, which often falls in October or November, on the second day following Diwali, during the moon's waxing phase, or Shukla Paksha.
The origins of Bhaiduj are steeped in mythology and cultural traditions. One popular legend revolves around the story of Yamuna and Yama.
The story goes that Yama, the god of death, was summoned to the house of Yamuna, the goddess of riches and prosperity.
She made a sumptuous feast and exquisitely decorated herself to greet him. Her hospitality impressed Yama, who granted her a desire.
In response to her plea for her brothers' long lives, Yama said that if their sisters carried out the Bhaiduj ritual, all brothers would be blessed with long lives.
Another story features Lord Krishna and his sister Subhadra. After defeating Narakasura, Krishna visited her, and she prayed for his well-being, highlighting their sibling bond.
Bhaiduj promotes love, caring, and respect for one another by highlighting the emotional bond between brothers and sisters.
On Bhaiduj, brothers present gifts and promise to safeguard their sisters, who pray for their long life with aarti and tilak.
Although the festival's core is the same, regional customs may differ. It is celebrated as Bhau Beej in some places, emphasizing the unique bond in various cultural situations.
Families are encouraged to gather during the event, strengthening ties and producing enduring memories.
It encourages respect for one another by highlighting the nurturing qualities of sisters and the protective and caring roles of brothers.
The festival allows siblings to express appreciation for each other, reinforcing emotional ties.
In addition to celebrating sibling ties, Bhaiduj is a touching occasion that serves as a reminder of the love and support that families provide.